Week of September 4, 2011mma

1. Read Matthew 18:15-20.
2. When it comes to conflict resolution, are you more like a rhino (who charges in and confronts) or a hedgehog (who balls up and hides)? Why do you think you are that way?
3. Father Mike compared the diversity of people in church to a bag of Chex Mix. Is it hard for you to get to know people in church that are different from you? What are some of the challenges in that? What are some of the blessings?
4. What group is Jesus addressing in v. 15? What difference should there be between the way believers deal with each in conflict and the way unbelievers do it?
5. How would putting God at the center of your life help the way you get frustrated? resolve conflict? forgive?
6. Summarize in the group the three steps that Jesus suggests. Which of these would be hardest for you?
7. Father Mike talked about how this should be done calmly and compassionately, with the goal of restoring the relationship. Have you ever had anyone talk to you about how you've hurt them without being angry? How was that encounter different from others you've had?
8. What does Jesus promise to the church that follows these suggestions?
9. How can you help St. Andrew's achieve a deeper level of Christian community? What do you need to do in your small group?
10. Pray for one another....